忘我
阅读下面题目为“忘我”（摘自2004年3月11日《扬子晚报》，作者李浩)的作文材料，按要求作文。
1906年的一个上午，在美国密苏里州华伦斯堡州立师范学院，一个连续参加十二次学院演讲比赛失利的小伙子正准备参加第十三次比赛。
赛前，他请教一名老教授。教授赠给他一句话：猫抓老鼠的时候，它的全部精神都集中在老鼠身上，它可没有多余的精力去注意自己。小伙子沉思之后，明白了一个道理。小伙子又一次走上演讲台，全身心地投入到他所演讲的题目中。当台下报以雷鸣般的掌声时，他才意识到他的演讲结束了。他以“童年的记忆”为题的演讲获得了此次比赛最高奖。从此，这个小伙子的才华发挥得越来越出色，终于取得了举世瞩目的成就。他就是美国著名的企业家、教育家、演说家——戴尔·卡耐基。
[要求]请以“忘我”为话题，写一篇文章。①题目自拟。②立意自定。③体裁自选。④不少于800字。

The young man from Luo Yang Called Liu Yongying is really a kind — hearted guy , who is ready to help others .— A good fellow（小伙子）_____ A: all in all
B:that’ s for sure
C:you dare say that !
D:forget it;

“老大娘一会儿看着我，一会儿又看着那个小伙子”，这时老大娘的心理活动是：
A．我的唠叨，心疼那个小伙子。
B．赞许我的说法，等待那个小伙子让座。
C．怀疑我在说那个小伙子，怕小伙子不高兴。
D．赞许我的说法，担心那个小伙子与我冲突。

小伙子是做什么工作的？

A、会计

B、销售员

C、美术老师

D、服装设计师

Eye contact is a nonverbal technique that helps the speaker “sell” his or her ideas to an audience. Besides its persuasive powers, eye contact helps hold listener interest.A successful speaker must maintain eye contact with an audience. To have good rapport (关系) with listeners, a speaker should maintain direct eye contact for at least 75 percent of the time. Some speakers focus exclusively on their notes. Others gaze over the heads of their listeners. Both are likely to lose audience interest and esteem. People who maintain eye contact while speaking, whether from a podium (演讲台) or from across the table, are “regarded not only as exceptionally well-disposed by their target but also as more believable and earnest.”To show the potency of eye contact in daily life, we have only to consider how passers-by behave when their glances happen to meet on the street. At one extreme are those people who feel obliged to smile when they make eye contact. At the other extreme are those who feel awkward and immediately look away. To make eye contact, it seems, is to make a certain link with someone.Eye contact with an audience also lets a speaker know and monitor the listeners. It is, in fact, essential for analyzing an audience during a speech. Visual cues (暗示) from audience members can indicate that a speech is dragging, that the speaker is dwelling on a particular point for too long, or that a particular point requires further explanation. As we have pointed out, visual feedback from listeners should play an important role in shaping a speech as it is delivered.1. This passage is mainly concerned with ______.2. According to the passage, a good speaker must ______.3. The word “target” in the last sentence of the second paragraph can best be replaced by ______.4. In daily life, when the glances of two passers-by happen to meet, these two persons will inevitably ______.5. Eye contact with an audience, according to the author, has all the following benefits for the speaker EXCEPT that it doesn’t ______.

A.the importance of eye contact B.the potency of nonverbal techniques C.successful speech delivery D.an effective way to gain visual feedbacks
问题2：
A.“sell” his or her ideas to an audience B.maintain direct eye contact with listeners C.be very persuasive and believable D.be exceptionally well-disposed
问题3：
A.“destination” B.“goal” C.“audience” D.“followers”
问题4：
A.smile to each other B.feel awkward and look away immediately C.try to make a conversation with each other D.none of the above
问题5：
A.help the speaker to control the audience B.help the speaker to gain audience interest and esteem C.help the speaker to know whether he is talking too much about a certain point D.help the speaker to analyze his audience when he is beginning his speech

1983年，一位去南方打工的衡阳小伙子给家乡亲人的信中写道：“我来到的这座城市，曾是鸦片战争中被迫开放的第一批港口之一，现在则是改革开放中建立的四个经济特区之一，国家的变化真大呀！”这个小伙子打工的城市是（）。

A、厦门

B、广州

C、海南

D、上海